The brain is the biggest sex organ! If you're not there mentally you wont be there physically, You have to want something up your butt just putting it up there simply isn't enough. I know for me I tend to dislike toys as whole since they don't involve true intimacy as the feeling of a real penis and someone you like holding you is better in every way.
Thinking about someone you like while it's up there can help.
>>34408It can indeed take a lot of time, one thing to note about porn though is that if it's professional chances are the actors don't even like each other, it's just a job, which puts a damper on everything.
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