>>29179I would say it generally means that the femdom is done out of genuine affection and typically ends in sex with the goal to satisfy the man, whereas hard femdom leans towards men getting used and abused for the woman's amusement. For example, if she does tease and denial play to build you up so you can bust an even bigger, more satisfying load inside her then it's gentle femdom, but if she does it to leave you blueballed because you don't deserve orgasm then it's hard femdom. There can be some nuance depending on the guy's M levels, but it always comes down to whether the dom cares about the sub.
Assertive female is just a girl who takes the initiative and pursues sex.
>>29201Unless your bot is supposed to be an old British person mad about language evolving, yes.